NBI- YOU DID IT! (Links)

NBI Bloggers! Take your award and display it proudly!

This month we've had a great bunch of additions to the gaming blogosphere with the NBI. I still have many to check out, I've just been so busy but I've enjoyed the additions thus far and look forward to going through the complete list and finding some more wonderful blogs.

It sometimes can take a lot of guts to take that leap and start writing. Keep at it, stick with it and don't get discouraged! While you may not always get comments you will generate readers as time goes. I'm probably one of the worst offenders these days, I read tons of blogs on my phone and don't always get to comment, sometimes when I do it is a day or two later. I'm like a feed reader junkie and really love reading them all, I always love finding new blogs to add to my reader.

A few years ago I cut the list down  because I had several hundred. It's grown again but this time I'm keeping them all in there, sometimes you remove a good blog and can't find it again, gah. Let the list grow! My blogroll doesn't reflect this and one of these days I need to convert it to what I actually have in my feed.

I also wanted to link all the bloggers that have joined the NBI this month, the link was shamelessly stolen from Syp . There were also many wonderful sponsor blog posts this month too, I really enjoyed reading them as well. Check the link to Syp's page for the complete list of advice blogs.

Also a big thanks to Syp for all the hard work and effort put into the project! Also thanks for asking me to be a part of this. While I wasn't as active as other bloggers, due to life getting in the way and a move, I hope I helped with some advice!

My last bit of advice and things to keep in mind:
*Try to be active, keep some sort of schedule. Even if it is one day a week, don't let your blog get too dusty. If you need a few weeks off a good idea is to let readers know- Hey, I'm not gone, just taking a bit of a break. IMO it helps. 


*Be friendly, get to know other bloggers, make friends! You don't have to be best friends, but get out there and comment. Interact with people who comment on your own blog. It really carries over. Even ask to trade links. 


* Proof reading. Skim over your posts at least. I guarantee you'll see something you could fix. I always do. Be proud of your work and presentation. Some people don't like to proofread and editing but many times you'll be really glad you did take a second look. Break things up because, especially on mobile devices, a wall of text can be hard on the eyes as well as hard to follow. 


*Don't get discouraged. We all have those days where we just feel like throwing in the towel. Think things over, the feeling usually goes away, especially if you love writing about what you do. Keep your head up and move forward! I've had a few times where I felt like it but I'm always glad that I kept at it. 


*You're pretty damn awesome! You did it! Don't second guess yourself. We're all just a bunch of gamers here writing about what we love. Take pride in what you do. I am my biggest fan and my own worst critic, don't be too hard on yourself. 


Advice Post
Checking In

If you're not a blogger, the list below has some fresh new blogs full of great reads, take a look at it! If you missed out on the NBI but you still want to have a go at it, there is a lot of information over at the NBI forums and advice to help you get started.


NBI Blog List

• Lotro Family of Flosiin Nightsong
• Red Neckromonger
• Casual Aggro
• SWTOR from Scratch
• Elfkina vežička
• Unwavering Sentinel
• Windy Acres Ranch
• TL-DR
• Saali in Taborea
• Bad Tauren
• Musings of an Altoholic
• Neurotic Girl
• Geo’s Ironman Challenge
• Crafty’s Corner
• Scattered Thoughts
• The Poison Mushroom
• My Staff is Bigger Than Yours
• Vagabond Goes for a Walk
• EVE All Night
• Dreadblade
• Priest All The Things
• Brazokie’s Blog Space
• Warp to Zero
• Altaclysmic
• Winniekin’s Adventures / Winnie goes F2P
• Diminishing Returns
• World’s End Tavern
• Warrior Needs Time Badly
• We do it the WASD Way!
• Middle-earth Initiative
• That Was An Accident!
• Aggrolicious
• Conveniently Placed Exhaust Port
• Adamant Nomad
• Toastman’s Blog
• Ravalation
• Gaming for Introverts
• The Incidental Analyst
• Funsponge
• Bloodthorne
• AntiPlasmaFrequency
• Kemwer Game Blog
• The Adventures of Danania, Supergirl of Lorien
• Unliving a Death Knight
• Deathstomp
• MMO Juggler
• White Charr
• Not Too Heavy
• Flask Half-Empty
• Raspberry Jammed
• Click to Loot
• Kaw Kaw! Get in the Bag!
• Mistress of Illusions
• Malefic Incantations
• MMO One Night a Week
• Omens of Onterion
• The Blue Haired Geek
• TFScribbles
• Glimpses from Middle-earth
• Goetia’s Letters
• /con mmob
• Gaming Abroad
• Backseat Game Design
• Divinity’s Reach
• Big Numbers
• Trippin Tyria
• Eons and Eons Away
• Horrible Ball of Fire
• Image Heavy
• Casually Vicious
• The Frugal Gamer
• Gaming Brew
• The Roaring Silence
• MMOARprz
• Game Delver
• The Diverted Muse
• Newbie Hobbit
• Battlemastered
• thenotsonewnoob
• Auction House on Farm
• Giddeon’s Hammer
• Noob Raider
• The Altoholic
• stnylan’s musings
• The 10th Level of Gaming Hell
• commentarilies
• Inside the Magic Shop
• Beyond Tannhauser Gate
• Argus or Bust
• Lotro Cinna
• Warlockery
• Stabby McStabStab
• Healing Mains
• The Loony Bin
• Warcraft Street
• Real Adventures in Fake Worlds
• GnomeGates.com
• Hipstalotro
• The Butterfly Gamer
• The Mighty Viking Hamster
• Why I Game
• Wald’s Wanderings
• Ald Shot First
• Sephora’s Closet
• Donovan Drones
• Beyond Reproach
• The Horn & Ivory Gates
• Landroval Style
• MMO Asylum
• Renai Hunter

NBI- Checking In

I should be packing... But I wanted to pop in and just send out a big welcome to all of the new, 'newish' and returning bloggers who participated in the NBI! I took some time yesterday evening to go over to as many as I could and drop a line to say hello. I know how it is when you first start out and it can feel pretty lonely, at times you wonder if anyone is reading. They will! Give it time.

Lots of really interesting blogs too! Some have a special direction or revolve around certain games, others are more general like mine. Variety is the spice of life, great to see so many different ideas. I'll be keeping tabs on the list over there on the forums to visit everyone who participates.

If I have to type in one more word verification I think I might scream, lol. Consider moderating comments so you don't turn people away. My spam filter catches most spam links and you can also set it to moderate any comments on posts older than 'X' days. I don't get tons and so I don't bother moderating them, in the past I did, you just have to keep up with it. I can see on my phone if I have any new comments, so that helps me keep tabs.

Be yourself, have fun and try different things. Pump out some posts, get your thoughts out there! You will find that with time your writing and thoughts may change direction, it's all part of the growing process. Stretch your wings and fly ;) Tell us more about you, it doesn't have to be personal, give us an idea who your persona is, why you started or what your goals are. I think those are the posts I enjoyed the most. I don't know any of these people so it was interesting to read those who had an introduction. It helps the reader associate you and your work. More of a mental painting of the writer to make more of an impression. In time people will remember you for your writing but for something like the NBI this can help.

Anyhow, I wanted to just send out a hello and a big WELCOME to everyone who participated! If you're still on the fence, take a leap, give it a try!

Newbie Blogger Initiative!

If you're familiar with the MMO Blogosphere then you'll notice that today is the kick off for the Newbie Blogger Initiative. Syp from Biobreak (and Massively) has asked many bloggers to take part and I was glad to be able to participate! For those who have been considering blogging- It is a great opportunity to break in and get started. What are you waiting for?!

I'm going on my third year of blogging. Initially it took me a couple of years to actually get the guts and finally do it. One failed attempt, floundering on how to start. Not that I was scared, nervous yes, but who would want to read my random raving and ranting? I followed some great bloggers (Syp was actually one of those who inspired me) and decided I wanted to do something similar, write about the games I love. I'm glad I did, I absolutely love it. I love writing about games, sharing information and helping people if I can. I've made some cool friends too. Plus it is something I'm proud of.

This really is the perfect opportunity, if you've been thinking it over. You have seventy other established bloggers to network with and help you get your footing! When I first started it was a bit of work getting my name out there and networking. How come? I never posted on blogs in comments, I was a bit shy, nobody knew who I was and I had to change that. It took time. It still makes my day when another blogger or a website mentions me. WoW Insider linked a post once- I was over the moon. I've been linked on Massively too and really it makes my head swim to be part of these things. It's always nice when you get recognized for doing something you LOVE. Luckily I've never had many flames! I speak my mind and I do try to be respectful but sometimes I may be taken as abrasive, I try to keep myself in check.

Some advise I can offer:

Be yourself. I'm me when I write, this is who I am, you get what you see. I write what I feel, my perspective, my thoughts. That's what is so great about writing on your own blog! Now it might get you more readers to write about something more popular than what you want to write about. Will it keep you writing? Write about what you like and share how you feel. Not what you think other people want to hear. You'll enjoy it more. I look forward to my posts, I get excited about sharing what I write with my dear readers.

If you think something is funny, interesting or cool- Share it. Don't be shy, be yourself. I'm the biggest geek and I wear my badge proudly. It looks like one of those plastic toy FBI badges... For reals! My son rolls his eyes at me because I have 'Your Favorite Martian' in my playlist /shrug that's me. And yeah, you'll find plenty of stuff like that around here too. It lets us see a little bit of you, what you like, what you find interesting and we, as readers, like that.

Don't try to sell out on an edge. You might not always feel like keeping it up. Just be you. I notice a lot of readers don't realize I am female. It doesn't really bother me. I want to be taken seriously as a writer/blogger not for being female. That is who I am. I get plenty of notice in my personal life for being female, I don't need any extra attention here, in my virtual space, for it. Be consistent with yourself. *Bats her eyes* See what I did there ;) When people mention me for something intelligent or interesting I wrote about, that is what makes me proud of this. If I had to pick an edge it would be- Being a strong person, honest, loyal and even stoic when the sh*t hits the fan. That's what I'm about.

Maybe a theme, or persona, is what you want, just make sure it is something you can keep up with and won't burn out on over time. It can work for some people but it isn't for everyone. Something to keep in mind for the long run. 

Pick a name you can endure over time! I've seen other bloggers change their site names or url's and get lost in the process, taking a bit to find them again. Sometimes people don't like what they have chosen for a name and then a year or few later decide to change it.

That is what we know you by, you build a foundation, not only with people but search engines, page ranking and such. You'll have to start from the ground up if you start over! My name isn't something I'd pick now, ECT- EC Tunnel from EverQuest- It was a gathering place, a familiar place where you hung out with friends. I shortened from when I first started blogging, it's part of things now.

Not saying changing a name is going to kill your blog, it won't, but it undoes a lot of work you've been building up over time. MMO-Champion (More of a WoW centered page than MMO) doesn't change their name for a reason! It took me several years but I now show up on the first page when you search for Google for- MMO BLOG. Does it give me a medal? No- It helps people find me.

Sharing and images! Just because it is on the internet doesn't mean it is up for grabs. Be careful when using other people's images in posts. Even if you link to the artist or 'owner' you can have a rabid person on your tail if they get angry you used their picture. I had it happen once to an image that I linked to back the artist, being honest was the way they found it, ironically. They were extremely rude and abusive to me, all the while foaming at the mouth. So, the best thing I can pass on is to be careful with what you link. You can attract some crazies or copy-write threats.

That doesn't mean don't use images! Readers, well I do at least, love to see what you are talking about. Share some of your in-game shots. It is so nice to see what the writer is sharing about in a post!

Be respectful. Be friendly. Sure, it is your blog but you don't want to go around pissing people off and turning them away from reading your blog. Yes, there are some bloggers who do -but- they probably have been writing for a lot longer and have more of a loyal fan base.  Most of them I skip, honestly. If you want to talk or curse like a sailor, that's cool. But really you're only insulting your own intelligence when you constantly spew garbage in a readers face.

Consider other's thoughts when you reply to them. As for posting, still try to consider other peoples thoughts- Try to think things over that might have you upset. I have a temper, I can zerk out in a moment. ZERKER RAGE! Ahem, I try to keep that under control these days. However, I try not to convey that in my blog, sure it might be funny in a post here or there.

Something I have always done is reply to people who comment. Why? I appreciate they took the time to comment on something I wrote. I truly do. I've had other bloggers ignore questions in comments but be quick to snap at me for handing out a tip. You don't have to do that, just a little something I like to do. I'm not tremendously popular so it is easy for me to do. I like it like that, I think I'd go nuts if I got more comments because I'd OCD over replying to them all, lol.

Don't be afraid to make new friends. Comment on other bloggers posts, introduce yourself through twitter or send an email to ask that question you've been pondering on. Reach out, comment, talk, get to know others in-game and out in the blogosphere. We don't get paid in anything besides hugs :) We all need hugs right?! *All hugs can be left in the comments section for collection.*


Ready to get started?
Check out who is sponsoring here.
Check out the Newbie Blogger Section.

Feel free to ask me any questions if you're interested and have any. Need help with what type of look you want? Maybe some advise on something? I can try to help, I can't make everyone graphics but I have been known to make some for friends, even new friends. If you're having a hard time I'm usually up for helping out on banners and buttons. Or simply introduce yourself in an email or comment if you feel up to it, or simply drop me a line if you're a regular reader who is starting up. Email me- kaozz @ ectmmo.com!

Some ideas for choosing a blog platform- here. Another link here with self hosted ideas also.

I wish everyone the best of luck! This is such a wonderful opportunity to get started. I would have died and gone to blogger heaven if this was going on when I started! Be sure to check out the Newbie Blogger Initiative- I am sure there will be a list up to check out the other blogs offering advise, there are already several with some fantastic information! I hope this post was helpful! Now lets all celebrate with a Robot Bar Fight (not work safe!!)!

Want to trade links to pop up on my blogroll? Sometimes it is hard to keep up with so many blogs in my feed they don't all make it in. Just drop me a line here or in an email and I'll add you!